How to Deal with Difficult People | Bullies & Toxic Individuals
There are various types of difficult people, some may be toxic to you….
These may or may not include bullies, control freaks, constantly negative rainy cloud people and excessively power tripping individuals.
Best way to deal with difficult people is to inner stand that you can not fix them. You can only fix yourself.
Inner stand that others do not control your emotions or reactions.
So the way you handle these people is completely up to you and YOU inevitably hold all the power.
6 ways to deal with Difficult people, Bullies & Toxic Individuals.
1 . Breath.
No shallow breathing. Hold your breath as if it’s the last breath you are going to take. I am very serious about this.
In this time period your mind and your heart have time to align and act accordingly.
2. Change your paradigm.
After breathing you will be able to change your thought regarding the individual or situation. Changing how you are thinking is key to changing your reality.
3. Nip it the in the butt. Take Action.
If you stay passive about how someone is negatively treating you then it will continue to happen.
Acknowledge what is going on and take massive action. Do it with a smile if you can =)
You can be serious and still be very polite about it.
This is definitely something I am still working to get better at but it is easier with more practice. It is part of our growth.
4. Learn something.
People are reflections. They show us our inner most parts that we may not be able to see without otherwise experience it from the outside.
Reflection can be very deep but in general, it helps aspects of ourselves that we have buried deep down inside and we wish to not deal with.
Reflections can be difficult to inner stand, but when you are able to see that if something bothers you then there is an aspect of yourself that you may mimic in one way or another.
This experience is happening so you can change that aspect of yourself that you haven’t been able to see in that way before.
5. Know your worth.
You will be treated inevitably on how you are vibrating. Know your worth. You are spectacular! Sometimes we may not feel that 100% of the time and it will be manifesting in your world.
When you know your value, people will also know.
6. Be your True Self.
Do not fall into the negative games around you. It takes two to tango and a few more for war.
Continue to have a great attitude. Smiles are contagious. If you let bullies and toxic people change you to be more like them, then they win that battle.
Shine bright and don’t let others discourage you from being true to yourself.
Now if you are dealing with someone who is toxic to your own well being and being abusive, I suggest you separate yourself from them all together.
I will make another show on abuse, narcissists, psychopaths, soulless individuals and how they are all energy vampires.
Stay Tuned for that!
Sorry for my short time off from videos I have been working on several side projects. Some will be revealed here on this channel and others I will let you know on my social networks.
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